hey can trans women stop acting like any dude who hangs out with trans women is actually secretly just a future trans women and that they have a personal crusade to push them into transitioning
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Happens to me on occasion, but instead of "personal crusade" it tends to be "mild joke" so I don't mind at all. I might be an exception to the rule though, I've heard it happening to others and making them greatly uncomfortable.
it is Awesome when someone finally figures out they are trans. but like there's so many paths a gender can take that go undescribed because people don't know what's possible!!!
i'm non-binary. I've used he/they for a decade. i am also a man, and I love being a man. i paint my nails and carry a purse. I've worn all genders of clothing and enjoyed it. never stopped loving being a man, and being masculine, and i've never wanted to be a woman
i understand the desire to have your identity validated by seeing he/they men take the same gender journey as you. but please stop acting like the endgame of men exploring their gender is to become a trans woman. please encourage them to be who they want to be instead of who you'd like them to be
this isn't directed at any 1 person in particular, it's just a petty complaint borne from like many years of seeing some (not all!) trans women spin this narrative that Trans Woman is the final destination for some guys. there are gender destinations you haven't even imagined yet. Free your mind
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Is this an egg?