Of course. This is definitely easier to do when you get both ends of it (you’re too fat, you’re too skinny). I know people mean well when they tell me to ignore it — but sometimes a comment is going to hurt. It’s okay to express it. - ThreadSky

missmeringue.love • 19 days ago

Of course. This is definitely easier to do when you get both ends of it (you’re too fat, you’re too skinny).

I know people mean well when they tell me to ignore it — but sometimes a comment is going to hurt. It’s okay to express it.

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theuberdork.bsky.social•19 days ago

Miss, You ARE beyond perfect for every reason. And not just your “shape or size”. I love your big beautiful brain. Your dreamy eyes (and even the way you chose to frame them). Your smile makes my day. Even your voice makes me blush. But I know. It’ll never matter what I think; It’s how you feel.

italianstallion00.bsky.social•19 days ago

Unfortunately, this is the compounding "side effect" of internet interactions.

You know you're not fat (nor too skinny), we know it, everyone with a set of eyes knows it. But due to the overwhelming supportive comments you get daily, it tends to saturate the "internet dopamine receptors". 1/2

italianstallion00.bsky.social•19 days ago

This then leads to even obviously jaded and trolling comments stick out much deeper emotionally than the compliments, and linger in your mind for longer. If for anything, due to the fact that it's something you're not used to, doesn't matter that it's as far from objective truth as it can be. 2/3

italianstallion00.bsky.social•19 days ago

This is why people no matter how smart, or emotionally developed they are, tend to burn out on the internet and take time off. And why trolls and jaded ones thrive on it, unfortunately.

Don't give them that power over you

pervthings.bsky.social•19 days ago

People really are a hateful lot and vomit out unnecessary comments no one wanted or asked for. They want others to feel as bad as they do and don't even think or care how it could affect the other person. It's beyond shitty and they'd never be brave enough to say it face to face bc they're cowards.

alchemyart.bsky.social•19 days ago

Kinda blows my mind you would get any hurtful comments. To me your body is perfection and you are very beautiful. Misery loves company they say. We can never dwell on the thought processes of others, but no one knows your struggles… so i send you big booby hugs ❤️

missmeringue.love•11 days ago

Thank you so much! 🥹

scbinca.bsky.social•18 days ago

Yes, it is okay to express your feelings. And we have your back.

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