which is what i see in incels. i've known people who had a lot of trouble finding sexual or romantic partners for various reasons, and were/are quite upset about that, and who would never call themselves incels-- nor would i call them that.
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1) I think we're using the term incel differently. I was more referring to the situation, small-i inceldom, i.e., not getting any in spite of wanting to.
2) This whole thread is reductive as hell. You got lucky, in spite of your autism, so everyone else must just have invisible standards and/or be making other people uncomfortable. Notice the operative word in the phrase "getting lucky": luck. There's a lot of random chance involved with finding/
other people, and some folks just don't have that luck.
I mean, I feel like I shouldn't have to enumerate the obvious reasons that someone might have issues getting laid that aren't the two you've decided on, but here: poverty, lack of social connections, psychological hangups, lack of self worth,/
and yes, to an extent, (although not the one that incels claim) physical attractiveness.
All this shit compounds and feeds into each other, and they all individually make it harder to fuck. If you only have one or two of these issues, it might not be significant, but if you have a lot of them,/
The only reason I've ever gotten laid is because I'm willing to fuck men I've never met from grindr. You can't do that if you're straight, it doesn't work like that.
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1) I think we're using the term incel differently. I was more referring to the situation, small-i inceldom, i.e., not getting any in spite of wanting to.
I mean, I feel like I shouldn't have to enumerate the obvious reasons that someone might have issues getting laid that aren't the two you've decided on, but here: poverty, lack of social connections, psychological hangups, lack of self worth,/
All this shit compounds and feeds into each other, and they all individually make it harder to fuck. If you only have one or two of these issues, it might not be significant, but if you have a lot of them,/
The only reason I've ever gotten laid is because I'm willing to fuck men I've never met from grindr. You can't do that if you're straight, it doesn't work like that.