Slowly realizing that its not that i dont identify with femme terms (especially in my relationship) but Its that I *do not* vibe at all with the collective femme terms like "lets go girls" and stuff like it.
And also that I want to be perceived for *being me* not for *being XYZ gender*
And also that I want to be perceived for *being me* not for *being XYZ gender*
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Even in my sports teams
Even at my youth group
I was always just someone the groups added on temporarily and not actually integrated to the group, so growing up I never really had that "One of the Gals" vibe
The more I learn about myself, the more I learn what my gender identity and sexual orientation mean for me and what i want.
i just want to be "Jay/ Lich" to people, and thats it.