That was my very first one for sure. Since then, like any woman, it depends on mood and vibe. So sadly, no forcing a titanic tsunami between your legs unless you’re ready for it
i would say that it never hurts to at least schedule a consult! (because the waitlist just to get a consult even can oftentimes be super long and the wait between consult to surgery date even longer).
but obvs if youre happy as is, then i hope my post doesnt make you feel less happy in any way!
it very much did, it felt less concentrated in a spot and more like... holistic?
and it was INTENSE, which i feel is a great sign since i'm still numb in some places and the nerves haven't even flipped back on everywhere so to speak
Mine have changed so much since HRT and are so much better. But I was afraid I might lose sensation if I had a vulvoplasty. That's so heartening to hear.
so my surgeon sort of allows us to start trying to masturbate (nothing crazy with a toy or anything) around the 6 week mark and im at 8 weeks so i felt like it was safe enough to go for it a bit once i realized i was close lol
ooh you right the surgeon told me 2 months before sex so that checks out. okay so no worries, just happy, and really impressed that you have sensations that are effective enough only 8w after.
I felt like I will have to wait like half a year minimum.
You give me hope 😁
so im 8 weeks! i know that each surgeon is diff cause ive seen some girls tell me that their surgeons said it was a no-no for the full 3 months but mine says around 6 weeks that you can start messing around (no toys) just to try it out.
truth be told i was kinda playing with it a few weeks ago lol
i also know of someone who went to my surgeon and orgasmed at *day 13* but that was risky af lmao. but yeah i waited for a couple weeks after where you are to start
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thank you for saying so truly
congrats emma!!!! 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻
godddd i wanna fast forward to when im allowed to do that so bad lol
HELL YEAH MY GIRLFRIEND'S CLIT WORKS !!! 🔥
i'm excited and very normal about this. 👀
*does a guitar solo on my clit*
they're SO good, happy you finally got to experience it!
yeah mine was a "full one" (i think?) but i can tell it'll be better in the future at the same time? haha
and yeah that's kinda how my experimentation started too lmao
sooo i went for it looool
And some days I read a post like this and think to myself, "Well ... maybe I should *at least* go get a consultation 👀"
but obvs if youre happy as is, then i hope my post doesnt make you feel less happy in any way!
And no worries at all!! I'm fine and super happy for ya 😊
Congrats, girl!
and thank youuu
and it was INTENSE, which i feel is a great sign since i'm still numb in some places and the nerves haven't even flipped back on everywhere so to speak
Mine have changed so much since HRT and are so much better. But I was afraid I might lose sensation if I had a vulvoplasty. That's so heartening to hear.
Thanks Emma!!!
it can take a while to re-awaken but most girlies i know def have normal function in that regard (though i still totally get the trepidation!). 🧡
hell yeah
im uhh really so excited to see you in a month 🥺💜
I'll do my best
(i am half worried, half jealous, half happy for you OMG THIS IS AMAZING AAAAAAAHHHH CAN'T WAIT TO GET MINE)
so my surgeon sort of allows us to start trying to masturbate (nothing crazy with a toy or anything) around the 6 week mark and im at 8 weeks so i felt like it was safe enough to go for it a bit once i realized i was close lol
I felt like I will have to wait like half a year minimum.
You give me hope 😁
and yeah im def not fully healed and hoping motrin nerves turn on but im really happy so far
you're gonna do great!! 💕
it might be dangerous tho bc i already experience insane orgasms 🫠
i was so happy more than anything because i never thought id get to have this
ITS GONNA BE SO GREAT, EM 💜
truth be told i was kinda playing with it a few weeks ago lol