intentionally sexualizing and adapting the signs of aging and also the traits you personally feel dysphoric or disgusted with, via art, is a great and very cool way to both normalize those things and also insulates you against the fear-driven madness of societal beauty expectations jsyk
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fat bodies, scrawny bodies, bodies that are asymmetrical or smiles that aren't quite right, etc. all are charming and sexy!
everything is hot if you let yourself be free from the judgement society tries to enforce...
god I just love how peppered/grey/white hair looks
My wife's family greys early, and I've always loved how that looks on him!
And now that I'm getting my own grey hairs mixed in, I'm like ...omg!! MY TURN??? 😳💖 IT RULES...
society doesn't get to dictate what you or anyone else find attractive or lovable or beautiful, especially once you separate your view from the ~beauty standard~ glasses we've been forced to wear since childhood, yknow?
And, what, I'm supposed to try and fight the changes as I find them??
Hell no!! Im hot! You're hot! We're all hot in our own varied, cool ways!!! Old or not, wrinkled or not, fat or not, etc!!!