right now I'm leaning fem in most ways just because i've never BEEN fem before and I'm seeing what fits and what doesn't. I fully expect i will swing back masc in certain ways as time goes on.
Same. A big aspect of my own is "what if this really really bad thing was *altered* so that all the things that make it terrible and wrong weren't there any more, but it was still mostly the same?"
eg. Having an accident in your pants is Bad and makes a huge Dirty mess and laundry to clean up. But put on something soft, crinkly, and absorbent and now it's not only way less of a problem for you and/or someone else, it's also now *expected* to leak in a diaper.
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I can identify as a boy for 3 straight days and then switch back around to being a girl
and sometimes, I'm neither! I'm just me.