That said, I have composed this so far for T'au courting behavior:

Fire: Blunt, to the point, lots of physical contact.

Water: Poems/songs as gifts, lots of flowery language.

Earth: Exquisitely crafted handmade gifts.

Air: -I have nothing lmao-
I have looked through enough T'au lore to make an entire Sept, with history, core tenets, with its own Trial by Fire and have made sure it all fits in lore and I STILL have not found a SHRED of how T'au court each other.

I NEED MY SPACE LESBIANS TO BE ACCURATE GW

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