An actually useful dialogue about things like "should AI take care of my personal chores/comms/etc" should divorce the subject from AI as a technology and think about mechanization more generally https://mitpress.mit.edu/9780262526524/the-shape-of-actions/
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https://www.upress.umn.edu/9780816690435/mechanization-takes-command/
"The real world of technology seems to involve an
inherent trust in machines and devices ('production is under control') and a basic apprehension of people (‘growth is chancy, one can never be sure of the outcome')."
https://monoskop.org/images/5/58/Franklin_Ursula_The_Real_World_of_Technology_1990.pdf