unpopular opinion but i feel like sometimes when people say to “be the bigger person” or “have thicker skin” it excuses other people’s toxic behavior. - ThreadSky

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naturalt02.bsky.social • 114 days ago

unpopular opinion but i feel like sometimes when people say to “be the bigger person” or “have thicker skin” it excuses other people’s toxic behavior.

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briamah.bsky.social•114 days ago

Toxic folks use these words to abuse others without accountability Protect yourself from this tactic. There is no situation in which you need to have a thicker skin around people you trust. Nor should you have to be the bigger person in a conflict, mutual resolution is always best.