This weeks #SundayThread A need for role models. I read this week about the speech given by @GarethSouthgate at the recent #RichardDimbleby lecture. He talked about a need for role models for men beyond online male influencers.
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At a time where young men are flaming out academically, in relationships and sexually there’s a clear need for support. I talked about this last week when I discussed the presence of ‘Wolves in sheep’s clothing”. Tate & other online Influencers are a clear & present danger
I admire #GarethSouthgate He cares for his team. His transformational style has instilled a belief in his players. A bit like the wonderful #TedLasso who simply wants the best for team.The idea that when you care for players success will come. What you give you get back
The notion of the role model is vital. Male influencers suggest support but it’s conditional. Conditional on supporting their way of thinking. If you don’t then support is withdrawn. At a time when male suicide continues to be a problem support must be present all of the time
Gareth talks about the importance of belief and resilience. I concur. We must help young men obtain the skills to walk away from these influencers. A set of skills that will help them avoid harmful events and to be successful in their lives.
Whilst we do need more male role models we must also help instil a set of skills that will help young men be role models in their own peer groups. We know that the biggest influence on an individuals behaviour isn’t themselves it’s their peers.
I’m talking about developing leadership. For me character matters. Better people make better friends, dads, partners, colleaghes etc etc. Loads of research suggests that it’s the internal moral compass that helps drive behaviour.
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