You are correct.
I see these situations not by gender but by age. The older partner can often be a predator and should hold the responsibility.
If it is a situation where both parties are fully aware, not coerced and consenting is it a problem?
If manipulation exists never blame the victim.
I see these situations not by gender but by age. The older partner can often be a predator and should hold the responsibility.
If it is a situation where both parties are fully aware, not coerced and consenting is it a problem?
If manipulation exists never blame the victim.
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Also, the older man/younger woman dynamic is much
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Lastly,you can't say it's not coerced when a younger woman doesn't know how societal pressures are affecting her decision,or how experiences in early life affect her, if at all.
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To be constructive. How do I add to making things better not contribute to maintaining a bad system?
We my daughter to demand respect and equality. And I want to know what warning signs she can look for from a woman’s perspective.
I’ve told her things I’ve seen toxic men do and say.
(Aside: We know she helped you. It's what we do.)
https://bsky.app/profile/papayafools.bsky.social/post/3limmhad5us2k
More so. That one day it isn’t necessary.
Keep learning, keep listening to women and men *who KNOW.* Don't ever stop doing that. Put more focus on talking to men. That's the only way that day may be here soon enough for your daughter to benefit.
2. Learn why saying"But she was more mature & helped me" is problematic.
3. Explain to your daughter WHY the toxic things men say are toxic. Not just that they are.
To do this, you need to learn a lot more about
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https://www.youtube.com/@Thepublicoffender100
https://www.youtube.com/@ex.patriarch