Do not trust personal feelings of discomfort when it comes to whether some sexual fantasies are "normal"/"healthy" or not.
Believe the research.
Believe the experts (psychologists, therapists, sexologists, etc).
"I find this gross" is not proof that something is bad/unhealthy.
What a wonderful thread, thanks, i love this, also i was wondering are you interested on covering the history of sexual fantasy in literature? Cause i heard the root of the genre came from the puritanism resistance in 19th century @purityculture.bsky.social
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Believe the research.
Believe the experts (psychologists, therapists, sexologists, etc).
"I find this gross" is not proof that something is bad/unhealthy.
The 7 Most Common Sexual Fantasies and What to Do About Them
https://www.healthline.com/health/healthy-sex/sexual-fantasies
Why Are "Rape Fantasies" So Common?
https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/the-myths-sex/202003/why-are-rape-fantasies-so-common
Women's Sexual Fantasies – The Latest Scientific Research
"Women who have rape fantasies also tend to have more positive attitudes toward sex, high self-esteem, and more frequent consensual sexual fantasies."
https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/slightly-blighty/201508/womens-sexual-fantasies-the-latest-scientific-research
https://goat.com.au/thinking-between-the-thighs/what-do-your-taboo-sexual-fantasies-say-about-you/
"Take comfort in knowing that you’re NOT A FREAK, even if you like to get a lil’ freaky in your imagination."
https://csustan.edu/sites/default/files/honors/documents/journals/sexinstone/Miranda%26Medeiros.pdf