I used to feel obligated, but now not so much. I think if someone expects you to follow them back and they get upset about it then that’s a THEM issue, not a YOU issue. Especially if someone is a larger creator, they’ll likely have more followers than follow backs, and that makes sense! It’s ok 😎
I agree and I think you are right, but still makes me uneasy seeing people out there on high horses proclaiming people who follow less people than follow them are fake 😅But being a people pleaser is one of many things I struggle with so a lot of it is just me 😂
I totally get that. I used to be a big people pleaser so I know it’s a hard thing to break. I have to remind myself constantly that I am not responsible for other peoples feelings. And that’s hard bc I think a lot of people pleasers have been made to feel like they are.
Yeah I know what you mean. I definitely figured out being a people pleaser is not just a fun personality trait you randomly are born with 🤣 Working on that self reminding thing still 😊
I agree. Luckily there have been some amazing simmers creating starter packs with fellow simmers to make it easy to find others. I was lucky to see a lot of simmers I follow on the other app here.
Yes it’s been tough! I officially deleted my Twitter account yesterday. Luckily I’m finding a lot of people I was missing by going through my moots’s moots 😂
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It's actually making me super anxious, especially since in the beginning you almost feel obligated to follow back?
HAI we haven’t interacted in an age but it’s because I fled the other place even before the great exodus 😭