Ngl this might be the first time a stranger’s words at a con on hurt me like this
I don’t usually let gender hurt me (esp relative stranger and I’m enby) but someone talking about your body and gender like they know more than yourself struck a nerve tbh…
I don’t usually let gender hurt me (esp relative stranger and I’m enby) but someone talking about your body and gender like they know more than yourself struck a nerve tbh…
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I hope they didn’t have any bad intentions in their words but I wish I could say it would be ok in most other contexts
Hurts me more than it should
I am really sorry babe, you are amazing and I love you more than you will ever know
You are you, you define you.
Never let someone try to wedge themselves into your identity, that's YOURS, not theirs.
I'm a trans woman, I don't want bottom surgery.
I've had people dictate that it makes me not trans.
Never let other people tell you who you are, they can't read your heart
If you say you identify a certain way, it's a fact until you change the label.
Just remember that you're a beautiful person and you don't deserve to be treated like a specimen for others to dictate.