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sex & culture critic. author of BUT HOW ARE YOU, REALLY. host of the REBEL EVER AFTER podcast about progressive romance novels. survivor. she/her. currently reacting to Star Trek: Deep Space Nine. https://linktr.ee/brosandprose
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Hey Chuck, this decision rips health care away from Americans

on the plus side, it'll be easy for his human wife to divorce him when he uses a hallucinating AI attorney

the federal government issued a stop work order to the Trevor Project in its contract for the national 988 suicide prevention hotline to provide LGBTQ+ specific mental health support on the day that the Supreme Court upheld a ban on gender affirming care. kids will die because of today's events.

Shoutout to @lindseyboylan.bsky.social for putting this on my radar. I wrote about a girl boss CEO's wild endorsement of Cuomo, which reduced his legacy of abusing women to a "terrible brand." www.patreon.com/posts/when-g...

I'm watching Notting Hill for the first time in aaaages and Julia Roberts is truly such a beautiful woman.

John Fetterman, everybody

Shoutout to @lindseyboylan.bsky.social for putting this on my radar. I wrote about a girl boss CEO's wild endorsement of Cuomo, which reduced his legacy of abusing women to a "terrible brand." www.patreon.com/posts/when-g...

🏳️‍🌈 This one is for the gaymers! 🎮 @taratai.com and I talked about the best romantic storylines in games, and how they wrote a rom-com about two game devs who butt heads while writing romantic storylines in a new video game. Meta! Listen in the Rebel Ever After feed: open.spotify.com/episode/5QnE...

"One user asked Meta AI to generate images of “two 21 year old women wrestling in a mud bath” and then posted the results on the discover feed under the headline “Muddy bikinis and passionate kisses.” Another asked Meta AI to create an image of a “big booty White girl.”" lol, lmao

🏳️‍🌈 This one is for the gaymers! 🎮 @taratai.com and I talked about the best romantic storylines in games, and how they wrote a rom-com about two game devs who butt heads while writing romantic storylines in a new video game. Meta! Listen in the Rebel Ever After feed: open.spotify.com/episode/5QnE...

"The reality is that Baldoni steered himself into a heap of shit by confusing his publicity strategy for his legal strategy. And soon enough, the piper will have to be paid." hat tip to @rougegoat.bsky.social for sharing this on my discord!

Saudi Arabia has executed a prominent journalist over his tweet. His “execution once again demonstrates that in Saudi Arabia, the punishment for criticizing or questioning Crown Prince Mohammed bin Salman ( aka prince Bone Saw) is death” ground.news/article/saud...

to me, love is my partner enthusiastically watching both documentaries about the Titan submersible explosion with me on date night

This conversation about marketing and traditional publishing and authors is worth reading if you don’t know what the utterly ridiculous expectations that are put on authors:

at one point at the NYC protest today, someone started singing happy birthday through a megaphone and instead of "dear Trump" they sang "you piece of shit" and everyone around him in the crowd lost it

I need everyone on Normal People internet to know that American Girl Doll Instagram is doing doll protests today. There are tiny t-shirts and signs. AND THEN I realized it's a joint protest with the Barbie ppl, where there are EVEN TINIER SIGNS.

This week on Rebel Ever After, hist-rom author Joanna Lowell talked to me about writing, living and loving beyond the gender binary. Listen on Spotify: open.spotify.com/episode/2QTR...

How can we bring more gay men into the romance community as readers and as authors? This week on Rebel Ever After, Chip Pons and I talked about writing joyful, authentic M/M romance 🏳️‍🌈 Listen on Spotify, or wherever you get your podcasts: open.spotify.com/episode/5xOZ...

Two Democratic lawmakers in Minnesota shot in their separate homes

Two Democratic (DFL) Minnesota lawmakers and spouses shot by man impersonating police officer. www.fox9.com/news/melissa...

"There is an inherent violence to moving through the world in a feminine body. You invite violence by simply existing, you are marked prey by the world. And I thought about the ultimate liberation of moving from prey to predator.”

Has anyone tried turning the engine of history off and on again

next monday's episode of Rebel Ever After features me and @taratai.com nerding out hard about video games and immersive storytelling and I cannot wait for y'all to hear it

I'm proud I don't have Andrew Cuomo's record of corruption, scandal and disgrace. And the name is M-A-M-D-A-N-I.

bleak but fascinating reporting by @kattenbarge.bsky.social on people using Grok to create nonconsensual sexual images of women:

"A recent federal policy change allowing immigration enforcement at domestic violence shelters has also created more barriers for undocumented survivors, who advocates say already deal with abusers threatening to report them to ICE or take their children out of the country as means of control."

NEW @motherjones.com: Spoke to 6 domestic violence shelters/orgs in LA about the chilling effects of ICE: They’re closing their doors & survivors are afraid to seek help. “DV programs should be safe sanctuaries & we can’t even guarantee that anymore,” one said. www.motherjones.com/politics/202...

Nothing has made me feel older than the panicked discourse about Sabrina Carpenter and whether or not her album cover is anti-feminist. I simply do not care, I am in my 30s.

Senator Padilla’s office sends me this video of his take-down and detention at Sec. Noem’s press conference in L.A.

re: Sabrina Carpenter - if you are an adult and you can't see the link between the policing of people's bodies and your own self saying a female celebrity shouldn't be publicly horny or kinky, then you have a dog's brain. and I don't mean that in a pet play way

wouldn’t be Pride Month without the “kink romanticizes abuse” takes. it’s a cute little antiquated tradition at this point, like driving past a house with a nativity scene out front at christmastime

Stories like this are why I will drive my 2004 manual transmission until it physically cannot move anymore.

Everyone saw Grand Park's hot pink benches being stacked into a barricade on Sunday. What an exceptional statement from RIOS, the benches' designers instagram.com/rios.imagines "These pieces were designed to move, adapt, welcome, connect — and now protect"