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ST VOY lover, P/T shipper, absolute Tom Paris apologist, Amanda Tapping/Gillian Anderson, unapologetic nerd-raging feminist. If you like Steven Moffat or Tarantino, turn back now b/c here be 🐉!
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What’s the difference between a golf ball and a G spot? A man will look for a golf ball…

Why TF is Lara Pulver cast as the thorn in every show I like? It’s like she’s been typecast as the wedge between two people who were meant to be together lol

Being on the frontline should count for understanding what’s going on. Health care workers speaking out about it should not be losing their jobs. They’re heroic. www.cbc.ca/news/canada/...

To all the non whites and women doing his bidding: You’re next dumb fuck

The kind of content we need right now

I’ve NEVER heard of a man supporting his female partner through a crisis. Why is every story that’s ever about famous men, non-famous men about a woman killing herself to uphold a man who is behaving like a child and refusing to improve their own well-being? “She saved my life” isn’t a compliment.

Me: I have nothing to wear to Pride today Also me: Accidentally ends up dressing like the whole ace pride flag

It’s really unfortunate how much we, collectively, disparage women in our society. So many comments about yesterday’s fight comparing them to girls and women, as if that’s a bad thing. They are MEN behaving badly. It’s ok to say that.

Why is every fictional American “Irish” person on a tv show from County Clare? Were the Irish who emigrated across the pond all from one place?

ADHD and Autism are not “over-diagnosed”. There is no medication to “treat” Autism. ADHD meds can be lifesaving. Actual diagnoses are far lower than societal instances of ADHD & Autism, and waiting lists are years/decades long… proving they’re massively under-diagnosed.

Woman has to become a billionaire to buy back shit men stole from her. I fucking hate this patriarchal world we live in.

Apparently states’ rights stop the moment women board a plane with autonomy in their carry-on.

Still living with the ex til I can move out. He keeps trying to talk to me about his day, his prospective jobs. Nope. You want wifey support, you don’t break up with me telling me you think there’s someone better out there for you. The. Fucking. Audacity. Of. Men.

When you’ve only ever been in spaces with no boundaries, clear ones can feel like cruelty. But kindness without clarity isn’t safe. It’s just chaos with a smile. Neurodivergent spaces need structure so we don’t burn out trying to hold it all ourselves. Boundaries are care.

"Akoocheemoya. We are near to the bones of my people."

Voyager finale is exceedingly mid, and it's really too bad because the 7th season was actually pretty solid. But the finale is mostly just a rehash of "Timeless" combined with all of the C/7 self-insert awfulness.

“They can’t be Autistic because…” Anything that comes next is mostly based on stigma, ignorance, and ableism. There is currently no single “thing” that you can use to be 100% sure someone isn’t Autistic. Even professionals get it wrong regularly, especially for girls & women.

Being able to "just leave" an abusive relationship or situation is very often the exception, not the rule. Being functionally trapped in painful relationships is almost never a "choice"-- and easy or consequence-free escape is almost always a fantasy.

Baby girl, just remember that you do not have to make yourself more digestible for other people ✨they can choke✨

Don’t they?

Many survivors in trauma recovery notice we feel "child like" in little & big ways-- & that's not necessarily a bad thing. We're catching up on developmental tasks we didn't have the safety or support to complete in the past. "Child like" isn't shameful-- even for "old souls."

How my life has always felt

been saying this for like 3 years now, the core constituency of the "manosphere" is not Gen Z or teenage boys, it is 35-55 year old dudes who wish they were still teenage boys

Men don't recognise emotional abuse, as actual abuse. Many of them will be proud not to have laid hands on a woman but their loophole is breaking women's spirits and calling themselves “alpha’s” for being “different.”

“Looks like it’s been pounded on for days.” Star Trek quote you should not say at a Funeral?

#booksky

Realistic trauma recovery embraces the reality that the exercise, conscious eating, & other physical self care habits that undeniably do support health & recovery, may diverge significantly from what a superficial, ableist culture thinks of as "fitness."

QT with a fictional character who is eerily similar to you

There's no realistic trauma recovery without course correcting dozens of times during the day. Left on autopilot, trauma conditioning will spend all day telling us we suck & things are hopeless-- but just keep returning, again & again, to the next recovery supporting baby step.

We can keep discussing these societal issues year after year, but nothing is likely to change. Instead, it’s up to you to take proactive steps to protect yourself and your family and live with the reassurance that you can protect your life if the threat arises—plain and simple.

And I’m at the age where they’re all starting to split. Myself included.

They’re not wrong though. How many pervy old rockers wrote songs about hitting up teenage girls? I can think of half a dozen off the top of my head!

Tax isn’t bad when it funds public services cheaper and better than private conartists.