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localcommienarwhal.bsky.social
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having family who refuse to accept or respect my identity as a queer trans person tell me they love me is *wild*. they don't love *me* as in the person who i am in reality. they love this idea of me, a cishet person who doesn't exist. this other version of me is not real and saying it is, is bonkers

Day 154's good thing was continuing to clear out my room. I've been working on discarding the things that are no longer serving me and I already have so much more space and peace. #todaysgoodthing

Day 151's good thing was realizing how much joy I've found since I left the mormon church. I was putting together pics and videos for something and I can't believe how much of a difference it's made #todaysgoodthing

Day 147's good thing was being at work and enjoying seeing the kiddos. We get kids of all ages, from brand new babies to kids going into middle school. I love talking to them and seeing them grow. #todaysgoodthing

My favorite #Wisconsin #NoKings sign/flag from today. #wipolitics

Day 145's good thing was attending a night fair with my family #todaysgoodthing

BREAKING NEWS: Local water sausage executes a flawless 360,493° ultra-zoom mega spin. Physicists baffled.

Day 144's good thing was talking with someone I know about the wounds passed down from our ancestors and how we can hold space for their pain and also say that the harm stops with us. #todaysgoodthing

Just so everyone knows where I stand: Fuck ICE and abolish it Remove ALL of them from office Fuck fasism (and not the shit conservatives were saying was fasism during the pandemic like actually fucking fascist) Give the land back, no one is illegal on stolen land If you disagree with me fuck off

nothing like trans graffiti on the wall

Nothin but the facts

Day 140's good thing was going to my town's pool. I've gotten a lot of piercings in the last few years and it's important to not submerge them while they're healing, so I haven't been in water for A While. Finally I'm back in the pool! #todaysgoodthing

Day 135's good thing was a long phone call with a friend. It feels safer for me to isolate when I'm feeling shitty, but I've been trying very hard to not fall into that habit. Reaching out for support is scary, but my friends have been there for me and it's helped so much. #todaysgoodthing

Day 134's good thing was getting through the fucking day in one piece. Therapy has been dredging up yucky stuff and making my brain mushy the past couple weeks. Most days I'm just glad to get through the day and make it to bed. #todaysgoodthing

Day 133's good thing (delayed) was going to a pride festival. It was really good to spend time surrounded by people like me and our allies. #todaysgoodthing

It's s so important to remember that Pride Month is still a very necessary thing. The amount of hate and discrimination for the LGBTQIA+ community around the world is still very real especially for the trans, asexual, nonbinary, and bipoc folks. Pls remember to be kind to each other this Pride❤️💛🧡💚💙

that awkward moment when not only are there cops in the pride parade, but people cheer for them

So now that JK Rowling has officially said she's using all her HP revenue to fund anti trans lawsuits can we all agree you hate trans people if you still are giving her money from now on

Day 129's good thing was reaching out for support and getting it. I still don't feel like a person, but I have my long distance hand holding buddy and it's helping me feel better. #todaysgoodthing

no big deal, just asserted myself in a situation where I would usually fawn. no big deal. no big--

Transphobes are really trying to sell anti trans laws as protecting women from sexual assault when sexual assault is already illegal. IT. IS. ALREADY. ILLEGAL. TO. SEXUALLY. ASSAULT. SOMEONE. And it's still almost impossible for SA victims to get justice. Yall aren't protecting jack shit.

fucking hate waking up from a nap more tired and disoriented than when I went to sleep. Literally sitting at the table feeling like this right now and it sucks:

saw this momma duck on a walk today. as soon as I saw her, I knew she was sitting on something and lo and behold! Ducklings! #ducks #mallardducks

Day 124's good thing was making it to the end of the work week and getting to the 3 day weekend. #todaysgoodthing

Day 123's good thing was visiting a nearby library that has the yearbooks of my grandpa and his sister. It was so cool to see them. #todaysgoodthing

Day 120's good thing was shaving my head again. I've been bald for over six months now and I love when it's time to shave. It feels so nice 😊 #todaysgoodthing

Day 116's good thing was making it through the day #todaysgoodthing

I would appreciate it if my brain would just stfu instead of telling me to end it all when I see my friends having meaningful experiences without me. like, you don't need to literally die from fomo, you just need to chill the fuck out 🙄 #mentalillness

Day 115's good thing was a quiet day at work #todaysgoodthing

I bet this feels really good if you're a fruit

Day 112's good thing was spending time with my mom and sibling for Mother's Day. #todaysgoodthing

Day 111's good thing was getting more birding at a duck pond nearby. I logged 5 species that I saw, including a catbird, which I've never seen before. #todaysgoodthing

Great Blue Heron, casually standing in a tree. 🪶

Day 109's good thing was birdwatching at the pond near my job. The binoculars i borrowed from the library helped me see all the way across the water and it was very cool. I also met a little toad friend in the grass. #todaysgoodthing

honestly, I'm really glad I didn't get my bpd diagnosis until after I'd been in treatment for years. it is an incredibly stigmatized disorder. if I knew i had it back when I was still convinced I was scum just for existing and saw how it's talked about, it would have pushed me over the edge #bpd

Day 108's good thing was picking up a bird watching kit from the library and trying them out at the park. #todaysgoodthing

Day 105's good thing was a hike up to a waterfall in the rain. I got to sit on a wet rock and meditate for a bit. #todaysgoodthing

oh I do love to be beside the seaside . . .

i'm going to need everyone using transmascs as a gotcha in the bathroom ban convo to stfu. you're not owning terfs by reminding them transmascs will be forced into women's bathrooms. they hate us too. they'll beat us & arrest us for using the "wrong" bathroom just as much as they will transfems 1/2

I love getting to go outside and look at the big trees and water and everything and then look for the teeny things that are there too #nature