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redpandachris.bsky.social
35m Red Panda babyfur dad. Demisexual, scared, sensitive, want people to stop assuming who i am and just try to get to know me without forcing their assumptions constantly.
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SRANDING WATCHINGBSOMEONES SHOW AND COMMENTIMY ON HOW YOU HATE IT IS NOT HOW YOU MSKE FRIENDS ESPECIALLY WHEN DISTRUPTING THE FUCKING FLOW OF TRAFFIC BY STANDING ON THE STAIRS THE WHOLE TIME!

⚠️Adult Diaper Post shower changes can be a little bit... fraught. Another oldie I really love (despite my very novice take on a diaper at the time, shh ignore that lol.) Get face sat, nerd. #cy83rdiaper

One of the things that sucks about being queer or on the spectrum (or in my case, both) is when grifters and right wing folk talk about ways to "find out what's causing kids to be gay/autistic." As if my literal existence and state of being is a disease to be prevented.

I love when people claim to be an introvert. Then spend their whole waking life trying to socialize and be around you. Not realizing they are an extrovert. And they just hated the people around them because they didn't relate to them. Introverts are real im not denying it. But forcing yourself

I need to be bullied into being little today

They are actively trying to make break up with my fiance ive been with for 16 years, and they are a person i knew for a hot minute!

Fuck it! Im not allowed 5 minutes alone today! Fycking fine! Im not cleaning my room and im done trying!

Like this persons say they work Wednesday Friday Saturday Sunday, but they will take Wednesday off because sick, start Friday when everyone else gets off work and takes my other roomies car to work, so no car for the house. Get a headache Saturday, wake up late on Sunday, so only worked Friday night

I don't like inconsistency for things that are meant to be consistent, doing dishes after eating, going to work on a set schedule, you know behaviors you should do when living on your own. To throw it all out the window because other people live with you is rude

But yeah, my issue is being responsible isn't being able to do everything. But its being able to identify and know yourself, and know how to make things you want to happen happen in the ways that dont overly inconvenience people, mild inconveniences are fine. There is a vast difference from a

Some good news, coworker called in, im off today for once because of it. I know it sounds weird. But I dont work Mondays I take calls to book appointments for them, on Mondays. And so of they call in its a free day off

What im asking is, if people know they genuinely can't do something, why dont they preplan for it, and just expect other people for no reason to take care of them, I can't drive, I ask people for rides, work on their time table, and offer what I can I. Return to make it their while.

The fallacy in cleaning of "its only 1 thing" is fucking stupid, yeah its 1 thing, so why didn't it get done before I got there, everyone else added 1 thing and it got worse, someone else is suffering because you started a trend, its not 1 thing. Its preventing the next person from their happiness

Just i really wish adults over 30 were able to fucking take care of themselves, im tiredbof being the one forced to baby grown adults.

Trying to make myself dinner early because bread, and getting custom orders for their food while im insisting I need to clean my room ON MY DAY FUCKING OFF! not able to do what I NEED and people take care of themselves!