I know the feeling. Do you feel like people are too self absorbed to be really connected, and therefore it's hard to trust that people will make a worthwhile connection? It's too much work! So you just say "fuggit" it is easier being lonely. (I'm talking about my situation of course).
Honestly, I overthink what intimacy looks like in friendships, because I’ve honestly never had the type of friendship I crave. I also hate oversharing so I tend to be closed off when it comes time to open up to form those deeper connections.
you have no idea how much I relate to that, I have the exact same issue. they’re fun friends , friends for a good time and a good laugh but never a group of friends where we can talk about genuine deep things, goals , dreams , travel , try new things. I get it 🥲🥲fr
Yes exactly ‼️ I’ve tried going to Bible studies or small group events to try to find those connections but idk it feels like everyone is taken lol like they already have set in stone friends. I also feel like forming deeper friendships is harder as young adults idk i’m 23 turning 24 hbu?
omg yes!!
literally I live in a town where most people have already known each other for years and coincidentally most of my friends now I went to high school with and reconnected in adulthood. But obviously finding deeper friendships as you grow more mindful mature and maybe faster than others
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literally I live in a town where most people have already known each other for years and coincidentally most of my friends now I went to high school with and reconnected in adulthood. But obviously finding deeper friendships as you grow more mindful mature and maybe faster than others