FetLife, actually. Started chatting, not just about fet stuff, but about music and interests. We just vibed. Good communication, easy to talk to, her yin fit with my yang, so to speak, in that a lot of our kinks "lined up".
It isn't what it used to be. It used to be a safe place to meet people and share community events in the local kink community. But more and more it has turned into just another advertising platform for everyone's OF page, mixed with warring cliques trying to bully people out of the community.
It can still be useful for local events like munches and play parties though. Just be careful, because like any social media these days, it can lead you into a toxic cesspool.
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