And remember: most of the people who act like they're set up for life since age 19 with these wild claims of six to seven figure salaries multiple houses/cars in their name etc etc... are either lying, or in enough debt to sink a small country's economy. Don't believe everything you hear
My ruler must be a very long tape measure. I have been trying to be more social online since I don't go outside much. It's been hell trying to push myself to interact with people. I am hoping to become a vtuber to help others who need someone to tell them they matter. I gotta be social for that.
It was so weird to jump hoops when I've been doing everything I could to be an better person than before several therapists, psychiatrists,etc to help with social situations.
People saying "well your the same" when they weren't even there to help or see my progress
Progress isn't always obvious to those who haven't walked that path. Growth happens internally, emotionally, & in moments where we choose differently than before. Just bc they weren’t there to witness the struggle doesn’t mean it didn’t happen. Tbh we don’t need their validation to know we’ve grown.
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It was so weird to jump hoops when I've been doing everything I could to be an better person than before several therapists, psychiatrists,etc to help with social situations.
People saying "well your the same" when they weren't even there to help or see my progress
When you've wronged or hurt someone, I think it's reasonable for them to have a harder time seeing the difference between your past and current self
Especially if they only ever see your online, public presence