happy asexuality day!!! 🖤💜🤍 (especially to my fellow aegosexuals 🫡) - ThreadSky

minniestoof.bsky.social • 2 days ago

happy asexuality day!!! 🖤💜🤍
(especially to my fellow aegosexuals 🫡)

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I have been wondering for a long time where I am on the ace spec. I knew that I was dysphorasexual, but I had the impression that there is something else, and you just put the right word on it. Thank you 🙏💜

minniestoof.bsky.social•2 days ago

🥹🖤💜🩶

nevaehs.bsky.social•2 days ago

🫡🫡

shikiobscura.bsky.social•2 days ago

I've... never had a proper word for this until now. I figured out I was somewhere on the ace spectrum and that it's very wide. I was pretty happy with that. Normally I'm about "there are no boxes, its all an open field," but- I like having this box 🥹🫂

purpleubts07.bsky.social•2 days ago

I feel the same way! 💜🫂

minniestoof.bsky.social•2 days ago

it warms my heart to read this 😣 it is such a relief to put a word on this very specific feeling and im very happy you can have this box on this day of all day 🥺🩷

shikiobscura.bsky.social•2 days ago

Thank you so much for this 🫂💗🫂

minniestoof.bsky.social•2 days ago

🥺🥺🥺🥹🥹🥹

minniestoof.bsky.social•2 days ago

figuring out i was aego took so much time and was SO confusing to put into words?? navigating your sexuality is often a LOT but out of everything, this was the hardest for me 😭 so just a little extra love to those who relate to being like a complete pervert with no intention of ever participating 😭

nevaehs.bsky.social•2 days ago

You have no idea how much I understand you and how often I had to explain that liking pervy stuff and wanting to DO it are two very separate very distinct things! And there's no guide for it, right? It's been barely 10yrs I even learned what ace means... so I'm here with you as a fellow ace perv💜

minniestoof.bsky.social•2 days ago

😣💙💙💙

minniestoof.bsky.social•2 days ago

its such a pain to explain, sex is SO shoved into our faces since were old enough to know what it is. theres nothing but pressure to participate from all sides, commercials, music, movies, friends, i think when youre aego as a opposed to straight up ace\sex repulsed. a LOT of things get messy

nevaehs.bsky.social•2 days ago

Absolutely! It wasn't too bad for me but it was just confusing for myself, like when I first thought I might be ace (when I was already 25 bc nobody even knew it existed lol) I thought well can't be right? I like to self pleasure wouldn't do that if I'm ace right?? And ofc it's even trickier trying

nevaehs.bsky.social•2 days ago

to explain the concept of asexuality to someone who can just grab the concept of not being straight, and THEN that there's even more to it when most people I know don't even want to acknowledge porn exists in the first place. But we're getting there and I like to explain it patiently to anyone who

minniestoof.bsky.social•2 days ago

and for ace ppl in general it just sucks because i feel like a LOT of us ended up doing shit stuff we didnt feel like doing along the way to get to a point where you understand this just isnt for you

nevaehs.bsky.social•2 days ago

That's true!! I admit it hasn't been my experience but I did feel weird for a long time not having crushes like the ppl around me, that I was weird? Maybe too picky?? Maybe gay? Not knowing the options makes you regret so many decisions later on and I'm glad more ppl start to know there ARE options!

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