I wish I had known sooner that I didn’t need to have a bias. It was a narrative constantly pushed on me as a new ARMY through YouTube comments and armytwt. 📢 Baby ARMYs, you don’t need to have a bias. Just love all our tannies 💜 That’s enough. - ThreadSky

dallyeora7.army.social • 94 days ago

I wish I had known sooner that I didn’t need to have a bias. It was a narrative constantly pushed on me as a new ARMY through YouTube comments and armytwt.

📢 Baby ARMYs, you don’t need to have a bias. Just love all our tannies 💜 That’s enough.

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jmoons.army.social•94 days ago

this is so true. bias or no bias is so fine. loving the boys is the main important thing. i wish no one would push having a bias onto others, that’s actually weird to me. +

jmoons.army.social•94 days ago

in my baby army days i didn’t have a bias, until one day i did and i was like oh! but it doesn’t change how i love bts before or after having a bias. if anything, my love grew stronger for bts as a whole!

jmoons.army.social•94 days ago

i think some people take fandom things that were initially fun way too seriously. like shipping, but we won’t go there😭

dallyeora7.army.social•94 days ago

Yes 😭 Tbh, being an ARMY would have been a completely different experience for me if I didn’t have that pressure. Like… I don’t have one! Get off my back 😆

jmoons.army.social•94 days ago

yeah i’m sorry you didn’t have such a good start :/ i’m glad you can be here now and feel safer! i wish i could go back to my baby army days ugh it was so magical- like entering a whole new world

dallyeora7.army.social•93 days ago

I get that.. I’m only 9 months in, but my magical days are so over because of everything that’s happened so far 😆 my first month was pure bliss!

hunny0613.bsky.social•93 days ago

I think it's a carry-over from Kpoppies. Even in 2015, when I became an Army, they were always pushing for having a bias. We really need to step away from it and away from other harmful Kpoppie stuff

dallyeora7.army.social•92 days ago

This is interesting! I think so too. Feeling naturally drawn to a member, or 2/3/4, is perfectly okay, but to pressure those without one is strange.

thisismei.bsky.social•93 days ago

It’s totally fine to have 7 biases constantly one-uping each other to win your heart and knowing they are all winners in the end.

dallyeora7.army.social•92 days ago

The truest statement anyone has ever said 👏🏻

that1inthegroup.bsky.social•94 days ago

they’re the only group where i don’t bias any particular member. it’s been years and it’s always all seven all at once. they’re each so unique and special i decided i wasn’t going to prioritize anyone. some people think that’s nuts but i truly adore each of them fully and completely.

dallyeora7.army.social•93 days ago

That’s impressive, and not at all surprising! I resonate with genuinely adoring each of them fully and completely.

heyydaah.bsky.social•93 days ago

I don't have one either. Sometimes it feels weird when everyone else is talking about theirs, but I'm honestly happy to care about them all equally.

dallyeora7.army.social•93 days ago

Love that! I’m kind of in the same boat now, tbh. I’ve realized I was pressured into having one, and now I’m just enjoying being claimed by any or all of them at once 💁🏻‍♀️😌

heyydaah.bsky.social•93 days ago

Right? We get to have fun no mater what. :)

birukelabu0821.bsky.social•93 days ago

Biased ARMYs have fun with all members too 😊

heyydaah.bsky.social•93 days ago

That's true. I'm sorry. I didn't mean to say that biased ARMYs don't care about the other members. We all get to have fun together. 💜

birukelabu0821.bsky.social•93 days ago

Yes! We're all one big happy purple family 💜🥳

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