And when you won't, you're labeled difficult, angry, unforgiving etc. I can live with that (and have). - ThreadSky

portiamcgonagal.bsky.social • 1 day ago

And when you won't, you're labeled difficult, angry, unforgiving etc.

I can live with that (and have).

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thxchef.bsky.social•1 day ago

Sadly true. Terrible.

rockrgirl8.bsky.social•23 hours ago

💯

johnpolecat.bsky.social•1 day ago

Be difficult, angry, unforgiving. Who cares what those who label think. It’s all they have. Otherwise, they’d be more compelling with their attacks against victims. Scumbags.

writeathomestkitts.bsky.social•23 hours ago

Yup. Me too.

doc2marines.bsky.social•1 day ago

I quit going to a cigar shop after the election and told a few of the guys, they can hang out at my house or we can go to each other's but I refuse to hang around the magats. I go grab my cigars and walk out, I dont even acknowledge them if I see them.

portiamcgonagal.bsky.social•1 day ago

I hear you. Hubs enjoys his at home. We have a little cigar patio set up. He went once to a very cool looking place and it was all masters of the universe conservative men and he was OUT.

doc2marines.bsky.social•1 day ago

My morning view of the Franklin Mountains. a weekend visit, have to deal with drama and then go pay my respects to my mom and stepdad.

portiamcgonagal.bsky.social•1 day ago

Nice!!

mjlinde.bsky.social•23 hours ago

Indeed.

notintimidated.bsky.social•22 hours ago

Except it’s the Billionaires sitting at the side without the hole.

mjlinde.bsky.social•22 hours ago

That they are...

nondualknowing.bsky.social•1 day ago

We live in a society where family, friends, DV support orgs, law enforcement, and healthcare all support abusers over survivors.

magz98610.bsky.social•21 hours ago

Exactly 💯

tydog33.bsky.social•1 day ago

Not quite true that’s why you have a lawyer ! Cause your lawyer won’t be emotional and blow the case

lisa7nicole.bsky.social•1 day ago

Friend you spitting truths this morning.

watertigernyc.bsky.social•1 day ago

Come sit by me. /pats sofa cushion

zadett.bsky.social•1 day ago

I have always in my life, looked down upon by others for being unforgiving for the injustice that fall among us. In my deathbed, I will have a pride standing by my convictions.

wayofthelotus.bsky.social•1 day ago

It's that "Christian" mindset of forgiveness that's warped everyone's brain.

jezz5150.bsky.social•23 hours ago

You shouldn’t have to

hersoldier.bsky.social•23 hours ago

Our abuser stabbed my 6yr old brother’s hand w/ his fork for touching the chicken. I was 8. I oicked up my fork and stabbed him back.”How does it feel you son of a bitch, now get your sht and get out”! He did & we didn’t put up w/ bs after that.

tygergyrl17.bsky.social•1 day ago

Exactly what Scientology does

kaptruthbetold.bsky.social•1 day ago

I live in a mindset that abuser will fall asleep! Then 💥⚡️🔥…great movie with the late actress Farrah Faucet called The Burning Bed! IMO! IJS! 🤷🏽‍♀️

eschertology.bsky.social•22 hours ago

I got that when I left my abusive ex and refused to be in the same room as her

oreginal49ers.bsky.social•1 day ago

Nah. I'd watch you do this to them and tell folks I never saw a thing.

jt9701.bsky.social•1 day ago

I refuse. I've already rocked that boat.

jlfrussell.bsky.social•1 day ago

Same…same…

boomer4bs.bsky.social•1 day ago

Live is the key word. Live with that or be unalived. Not really a choice is it.

ws75.bsky.social•22 hours ago

That is absolutely true!

newandabitalarming.bsky.social•23 hours ago

If you’ve ever been an abusive relationship, you know exactly what’s going on right now.

notintimidated.bsky.social•22 hours ago

Always speak Truth, Always!

gwpda.bsky.social•1 day ago

'People' are entitled. That's all.

psychoma.bsky.social•1 day ago

Exactly!!!

marikomarie.bsky.social•1 day ago

Our friends all chose me.

marikomarie.bsky.social•1 day ago

I haven’t sat at a table with mine since 2008.

selfdrivinghumans.bsky.social•22 hours ago

☝️

littlecesar70.bsky.social•1 day ago

The toxicity was so bad my own brother became the abuser" disavowed detachment engaged.

glorialynn.bsky.social•22 hours ago

For years, I had to be in the presence of my ex, the serial abuser, because we had children together. I'd go out of my way to grab the kids/grandkids and get as far away from him as possible. Fortunately, I haven't had to deal with him for several years now.

suzythealpacagoth.bsky.social•1 day ago

I've long said i don't forgive and forget because it leads to more abuse.
I learn and leave.

portiamcgonagal.bsky.social•1 day ago

I love "learn and leave".

vozderaquel.bsky.social•1 day ago

Especially if something bad happens to the abuser and you're glad it did. Oh yes. Then you're a horrible person. Nope. Abuser was horrible. Horrible things should happen to the abuser.

queensk.bsky.social•1 day ago

Very true.

batmobile63-65.bsky.social•1 day ago

Be Clear! That’s what Republicans want!

xerxerses.bsky.social•1 day ago

Bees 🐝 can go pfuck themselves.

mouse63.bsky.social•1 day ago

I'm so sorry that happened to you.

sundene.bsky.social•1 day ago

Me too. Apparently, in part because I am a small woman, I’m sometimes invisible and on mute.

So when I really speak up, it’s “why are you so angry?”

Maybe bc you’ve been talking over and around me like I’m not here? Went through a bunch of this when I (ME, not hubby) bought a car 2 years ago.

originalabbenormal.bsky.social•23 hours ago

Hell NO!!

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