You can say you practice SSC. You can say you practice RACK. You can say lots of things but you're not going to TELL me and others that you're safe, sane and consensual outright. Naw...
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I don't have a lot of experience, but I wouldn't think it's a red flag. I would still need to build trust before I submit/engage, ofc. Hmm... I guess it doesn't add anything, but it doesn't make me worry about them. Or: I haven't been burned yet. At least it's better than No Limits or "up 4 anything
It’s a low key flag for me because people don’t get to call themselves safe. That’s something others determine for that person. It’s like someone saying they’re a nice guy. Nice guys don’t need to call themselves nice. 🤣
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The safe people are those who prove it with their actions & behavior.