What's it like for you? For your partner? How do you orgasm? I'd love to hear more about the impact of long term locking on your psyche and on your relationship.
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Been thinking about how to answer this. So I’ll start with the easy question. I can orgasm without simulation just from thinking about things like bondage. Stimulation helps and Mistress will tease me by playing with my nipples, balls or touching what sticks out of air vents on bottom of tube.
Rarely Mistress will use a vibrator on me. I can also get myself worked up looking at social media. In pretty much all cases any physical or visual stimulation will stop and I will try to avoid the orgasm but sometimes I just can’t. So I would say all of them are ruined.
Our relationship has involved chastity from day 1. We met on a chastity chat room. I wore a full belt and left the key at home the first time I met her. But for many years it wasn’t full time because I couldn’t find a device that I could wear full time. For a long time we just stopped trying.
In 2017 I tried again and we managed to work slowly towards where I am today where I can wear a ball trap service full time. Getting my PA that year also significantly improved security and wear time as I didn’t need as tight of a device to be secure.
I can’t really speak for her, maybe I can get her to reply. But she’s not as dominant as you might imagine. She definitely enjoys teasing me and keeping me locked up. But she rarely initiates most things. I think that at this point leaving the device on is just easier than taking it off for her.
For me for the most part I want to be locked up. I have my moments when I’d really like the device off and be able to enjoy a nice stroke or get to have penetrative sex. But it passes and I stay locked. I know if I really asked to be out or had an issue she would let me out. But this is what I want.
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