I kinda expected this as 10 years ago when I first struggled to come out she made public posts I couldn't see that made friends question what's up, putting me on the spot. Which is when I promised to stop, and work at finding us a home of our own when we couldn't afford to.
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I've only told 1 or two people that side of the water what's up, and not in depth so not to colour things. She's been actually respectful in my face and backed of the demands on me a little.
I assumed she would do this, and thought I was prepared.
I had been writing an anonymised memoir of the marriage to help settle my own sense of reality. But hadn't done much since the 2nd chapter.