There was a whole thing where they had to answer questions about it at one point because otherwise the press was going to try to turn it into a big scandal
His wife was a vocal lesbian activist before they met/married/had kids/he became mayor/they eventually started dating other people. The press was uhhhh always kind of weird about it even before that last part became public information.
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