oh my god, sophia nailed this.
the pre-transition cis dude friendgroups that i've distanced myself from vs those to whom i've remained close pretty much entirely boils down to whether they say shit like "dw, we 'don't even care' that ur trans. we still see u as the same person as always"
the pre-transition cis dude friendgroups that i've distanced myself from vs those to whom i've remained close pretty much entirely boils down to whether they say shit like "dw, we 'don't even care' that ur trans. we still see u as the same person as always"
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Honestly, I think I have only one guy left that doesn’t have at least some queerness, even if they’re straight. Huh.
hmm wonder if that was actually true
that was the first time i experienced that, and ill never forget the feeling
i'm so happy that happened!
i got a lot of "slay!" and "i see you" shit early on that left a bad taste in my mouth but just straight up "you're still deadname to me" is so fucking bad
but it's exhausting.
and just when im around them, i notice they tend to be more protective or smile more at me idk lol
have you ever told him you think he's cute?!
that dude rocks, best pal ever.
thanks big bro 😭
the dudes i'm still close with now treat me like a woman who they happen to be close friends with and that distinction has made all the difference.
and their wives inviting me to girls' weekends only solidifies why i cherish them to this day
it's like "the 'me' u knew was a fucking husk. that is not me."
my first bachelorette party was incredible too 💜