// I'll always adore this community, but the "Whataboutme" isms need to stop. If there's a trend going around that makes you feel left out. Take a break from the app /mute the tag etc. We do not need to ruin other people fun because of our emotions. Let people enjoy things in the moment. - ThreadSky

connashots.com • 69 days ago

// I'll always adore this community, but the "Whataboutme" isms need to stop. If there's a trend going around that makes you feel left out. Take a break from the app /mute the tag etc. We do not need to ruin other people fun because of our emotions. Let people enjoy things in the moment.

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themorriganswrath.bsky.social•69 days ago

100 times yes! Don't ruin the fun for anyone else. If you wanna join just do it, dm someone to collab etc. Don't attention seek, it's cringey.

connashots.com•69 days ago

// I do this all the time because NOT EVERYTHING IS ABOUT ME. And I DON'T NEED TO BE INCLUDED IN EVERYTHING! I ignore plenty of trends here. If It's not for me, I don't do it but I will never shit on people for enjoying themselves with it.

connashots.com•69 days ago

// it's shity to make others feel bad for tagging their favorite gposers and such. To the point where others don't want to celebrate their friends because they're afraid to hurt feelings! How tf are we supposed to celebrate each other at all? Get out ya feelings and stop thinking of yourself.

sunlitkoi.etheirys.social•69 days ago

PLEASE. LOUDER FOR THE PPL IN THE BACK

diana2112gaming.bsky.social•69 days ago

Wait, people actually do that? 😢

I literally cannot comprehend the narcissism required to see a trend that doesn't apply to you and be like "why doesn't this apply to ME SPECIFICALLY?!"

This... Makes my head hurt.

johnhatchard.bsky.social•68 days ago

Narcissistic personality disorder ... ⬇️

connashots.com•69 days ago

// I don't think they realize that's what it is. A level of narcissism wrap in a *woe is me* bow.

diana2112gaming.bsky.social•69 days ago

Still, like. Ok, so. Imma use my polyamory to explain it cause I don't know if there's a word otherwise, but like when I see a partner with one of their other partners, it brings me joy, and the word for that is compersion. I'm the same way when other people have joyous moments in their 1/

diana2112gaming.bsky.social•69 days ago

everyday life. I don't get jealous or whatever, I feel joy by proxy, and want to celebrate that with them.

Do... Do other people not have that? Is that not normal?😐2/2

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