🆘 #ItGirlsHelp 🆘 I’m a plus-sized black woman and dating feels like a losing game. Men either fetishize me or make my weight the dealbreaker. The last guy told me I’d be perfect if I lost weight. Do I change myself to find love, or wait for someone who loves me as I am? What’s your advice? - ThreadSky

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itgirlcomplex.bsky.social • 34 days ago

🆘 #ItGirlsHelp 🆘

I’m a plus-sized black woman and dating feels like a losing game. Men either fetishize me or make my weight the dealbreaker. The last guy told me I’d be perfect if I lost weight. Do I change myself to find love, or wait for someone who loves me as I am? What’s your advice?

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forced2bnice2u.bsky.social•34 days ago

WAIT‼️ Never settle ESPECIALLY when it concerns love. If someone genuinely loves you, they do so without “conditions”, the key is loving yourself more than you want someone else to love you! 💯❤️

bnopmn.bsky.social•34 days ago

Anwar is coach dating in TikTok go watch his video you would know exactly where to go

globalatl.bsky.social•34 days ago

Love on yourself and wait. Don't compromise or settle. But do have fun dating and getting to know people.

izzaschancla.bsky.social•34 days ago

DO NOT SETTLE. Wait for the right one and while you wait have fun, love yourself just as you are.

marzmarshmallow.bsky.social•34 days ago

Fuuuuuuuuuuuck that guy.

d33baby.bsky.social•34 days ago

The right man will love you. Until then give these niggas hell!

pnk1.bsky.social•34 days ago

👋🏾 Sis, you continue to be exactly who you are! Beautiful, interesting, intelligent, engaging, AND independent in your thoughts and actions. Your person is out there... please let them find you. No settling "rount chere". Hugs 🤗 from your Twin Sis.

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