I always feel a bit weird not being into penetration whatsoever, yet still being super kinky. Even oral doesn't interest me. Anyone else in the same boat?
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I don’t mind oral as long as I’m super comfortable with the people involved, haven’t even done anal, definitely feel you on that XD I just like being in the headspace, wearing gear, no expectations of any kind of penetration. Doing what is comfortable and enjoying each other’s company
I’ve never even tried penetrating, I’m usually too subby for that. I enjoy bottoming, but would absolutely love exploring more non-penetrative kink. Ropes, rubber….the possibilities are endless
About 50%, I love oral (especially giving) but couldn’t be more indifferent to other penetration. Sucks cause I like to sub and it feels like I’m just expected to bend over
Yeah, that's the thing! It feels very limiting when those particular doors are closed off, and you're left with what? Magic wand for the hundredth time 😅
But I get ya. For me at least tho half of the euphoria is getting into headspace, I don’t care if I actually orgasm as long as my partner and I have fun.
I still consider myself asexual even though I'll still happily indulge those I love with sex, I just find cuddling and grinding in rubber so much better.
Some think that since I'm a bottom, getting penetrated is mandatory for me to have a good time.
Boi have they never heard about the joys of a thick stuffy suit and a magic wand!
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I like being penetrated but that is more about
being used to bring the other person pleasure (though it DOES feel good
Penetrative play is the least interesting part, and kink fun is
just
better
there is so much more to explore.
Though topping with a strapon IS very fun.
But I get ya. For me at least tho half of the euphoria is getting into headspace, I don’t care if I actually orgasm as long as my partner and I have fun.
Cuddly frotting is a good middle ground too
Headspace is super important!
Boi have they never heard about the joys of a thick stuffy suit and a magic wand!