yes!! it’s a borderline meaningless term, at least the way i’ve seen it used. my hypothesis is that many use it as a general “not a sadist” classification (which itself is kind of missing the point of an s/m match for me) - ThreadSky

maladictine.bsky.social • 3 days ago

yes!! it’s a borderline meaningless term, at least the way i’ve seen it used. my hypothesis is that many use it as a general “not a sadist” classification (which itself is kind of missing the point of an s/m match for me)