1) you're not stupid!! 2) this person sounds shitty and I would personally just disengage but if you can't 3) look up the tolerance paradox! It might help you describe the problem
“Freedom of expression ≠ freedom from consequence. You may choose to utilize hate speech just as well as I may choose to mute/block/cut you out of my presence since I am free to not have to listen to your disgusting hatred”
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“Freedom of expression ≠ freedom from consequence. You may choose to utilize hate speech just as well as I may choose to mute/block/cut you out of my presence since I am free to not have to listen to your disgusting hatred”