For the people who lose interest fast, do you really lose interest fast or do you observe them before gettin to know them deeply and just get turned off instead of letting things flow naturally?
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The reason why y’all” lose interest “ in people so fast is because you naturally read them and don’t even realize it because youve been doing it for so long so insteaf of enjoying the experience naturally, you enjoy what theyve shown you in a little amount of time
You’re so used to putting people on a certain pedestal that you make up a picture in your head, and when it doesn’t go that way you don’t want it no more so you..detach. You can’t do that because you won’t be satisfied
My mom used to laugh bc usually after 3 weeks of the getting to know you period I'd stop talking to a person. I guess people start to show their true selves after a few weeks of talking and going on dates. You get to decide if it aligns with what you're looking for.
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