i don’t like getting haircuts
even if i get them done myself
getting the hair i was perfectly comfortable in removed
and being told by my folks that i look “handsome” after the fact
it’s not a compliment to me
it feels more like a dismissal of my personality and who i am, what i want to look like
even if i get them done myself
getting the hair i was perfectly comfortable in removed
and being told by my folks that i look “handsome” after the fact
it’s not a compliment to me
it feels more like a dismissal of my personality and who i am, what i want to look like
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of course they mean well, and i can admit sometimes it doesn’t look good (mostly when i don’t try and style it)
but dammit, i’m tired of trying to live up to expectations all the time
trying and failing and being told it’s not enough
i don’t care if you’re right about some of that!
i just
I just want my hair to look the way I want it to.
I just want to get a place of my own.
Away from your judgement.
But that’s all so far away.
And I’m tired now.
Goodnight.