i’ve had oomfs i’ve shared my address with before and sent gift packages and letters to but i honestly for the life of me can’t remember how we reached that stage of friendship to swap that info…
hmm that’s fair!! i forget to do that bc thé holidays my household celebrates and most oomfs celebrate are different sksjdjdkkdkss my christmases have been v secular and incidental i forget by the time it’s happened
I tend to send general winter well wishes cards because I know a lot of people who celebrate a lot of different winter holidays so it’s easier to send something that’s like “wishing you well during this special time of year!” With like a snowman on it
I ask if they have an address they would feel comfortable sharing with me. Makes it easy to say no.
Turns out everyone has been fine giving me their home address so far.
I think it’s totally cool to ask. I’d always add the caveat of “it’s totally fine if you’re not comfortable but…” etc., but it’s such a sweet thought I think it’s so fine to ask
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Turns out everyone has been fine giving me their home address so far.