Awww hell no! What she’s going through?? Yeah, ok. 😏
This is why we’re cooked now. Ppl aren’t raising their kids. One of the first real lessons in this life is there is a consequence to EVERYTHING. Act a fool if you want to… we both gone be in this hoe embarrassed.
I dont believe in beating your children but i do believe at some point you have to ask "would someone check them for this in the real world?" And punish accordingly.
Yeah, too many people seem to think consequences=violence, and that just isn't true AT ALL. Accountability could be as simple as making her help clean up the mess and having her parents pay the damage. The last thing she needs is more neglect and abuse when that's what usually causes this.
I'm not saying she needs to get beat, there are other methods of discipline. At the very least her adult(s) need to remove her from the environment. Why would you let your child destroy a grocery store? I mean I know it's a Walmart but come on. Put her in the car and take her to a playground or sth
This poor, poor girl. Something is SERIOUSLY WRONG in her life to act out like this. Healthy, happy kids don't act like that. She doesn't need to be beat, she needs consequences and an adult to have a genuine convo about respect and what's wrong. Girl needs consistency and a hug, not more neglect.
Exactly, she's clearly suffering. You can hold kids accountable while still being compassionate. Ignoring the deeper issues and resorting to violence doesn't solve anything.
I can't stand when people get so above others while sitting on this pedestal, thinking a spanking is the worst thing in America. It did wonders back in the day. Sadly, parents are scared of their own kids today and have become their friend. This little girl needs her ass beat. I said what I said!
She’s a spoiled iPad kid w parents who fail to spend any real time with her.
She needs therapy, but also she needs to pay the bill herself for all those items! Every cent! -she should be made to Work for Walmart itself, learn to have empathy and not be w lil brat.
I've worked with kids like this for years. This is either lack of parenting(or elderly parents) or an undiagnosed issue. Either way, intervention is needed and prevention is mandatory. Self regulation is a practiced skill.
Behavior is a form of communication. So the girl is tryin to communicate a need that isn’t being met. And not like she wants an iPad but she needs some possibly deep therapy and coping mechanisms and anger manager strategies that she’s clearly not receiving.
Nah fr 😂
It's also possible that she has a learning/mental disability. My sister sometimes acts out and hits the walls or objects then a few seconds later she's back to her normal self and apologizing to everyone about it lol
It is definitely the parent's fault. She was made this way by her parents. The fact that it even went on this long is all I need to know or understand, like why let your kid destroy a grocery store ? break glass and endanger people ?? Pick them up off their feet and carry them away good lord
She would have got her ass whooped and than cleaned up. All that gentle parenting bs is not for me. There is a difference between trauma&being a bad ass.
Where are the parents? Seriously, are we sure this kid wasn't just dropped off and left there? Because no one is doing anything but watching her freak out.
This video is still going to be on the internet 5, 10 years from now after she's (hopefully) dealt with whatever underlying issues caused this behavior.
I hope people are kind to her, and help her to heal and grow in a healthy way 🙏
I don’t know if I quite acted out like this when I was a kid, but my 8 year old self relates to the frustration of having adults who act out their own frustration regularly but don’t take me to be a whole person.
That looks like a kid who needs an adult they can trust & relate to.
This is sad, think I would’ve been more concerned with if the kid was ok, rather than recording. Def woulda stepped up to prevent the bottle throwing, that was a lot.
I’m not sure why nobody stepped in to stop her. Where are her parents? Or who she came with? You see when that man approached she stopped. It doesn’t have to be do nothing or ass beating. There’s a whole swing of the pendulum in the middle
Omg...it's obvious this child is experiencing something. However Mom needs to pick her up and take her out of store. Meanwhile those ppl want to close Dept of Edu programs. Child needs some help
Impetulant kids like this lil brat will always spark a debate of who would whoop ha lil ass and the "kids need to be heard, you don't know what the kid been thru" ppl. Tuh... I agree with both however. You whoop they ass and have a conversation afterward explaining why. This 1 needs belt to ass bad!
Exactly, healthy, happy kids don't act out like this. She's likely dealing with neglect at home. Or it could be disability or mental health issues. Either way she needs healthy, consistent consequences, not more abuse and neglect.
Far too many of you think beating a child for acting out is an appropriate reaction. There are two options here: this girl is experiencing some sort of untreated psychiatric episode; this girl has been horrifically neglected. You aren’t gonna spank either of those out of her. I pity your children.
Exactly. Ignoring the deeper issues she's dealing with doesn't solve anything, let alone the symptomatic behavior at the surface. Neglect can be as simple as ignoring your child's emotional needs and neglecting to teach them accountability. You don't need violence to do any of that.
Or this kid is being a jerk for not getting what she wanted. Kids are spoiled to the point of entitlement now. Either way a parent should have stopped this long before they did.
Why do so many people want to blame and abuse CHILDREN because the adults in their lives fail to provide proper guidance or support? Again, it could be as simple as a child dealing with a disability and being stressed/overstimulated. The parents def need to offer healthy support, not neglect/abuse.
Spoiling kids/raising them to be entitled IS ABUSE/NEGLECT. Healthy kids don't act like that, they learn that behavior from adults, or they could be dealing with severe stress due to a disability/mental health issue, we don't know. Either way, violence doesn't work. She needs adults to do better.
Not disciplining your child is neglect. “I never taught you how to express your emotions in a healthy way, and now that you’re having an outburst I’m going to hit you” is pretty wild parenting
Exactly! That IS neglect and abuse, and honestly, not the child's fault they were raised that way AT ALL. Accountability doesn't equal violence. It's super counterproductive and unhelpful. And people wonder why there are so many rude, entitled adults out there. When you know better, do better.🤦♀️
They left out the part where two yt women wrestled her to the ground…surely didn’t help the situation. This is all on her guardians because where were they???
Think she’s telling people to stop reciting a child for this reason. I’d you lost. She first says “stop recording her. That’s a child. Don’t do a child like that.”
Yea……. Im right there w/u. Somebody getting they ass whipped then and there. GAF wha’ she went through this tantrumic.. and perfomative. Before the kid police come through…
When i was kid police i remember being called for a scenario just like this. I watched the video and told my supervisor. Shiid ion see the problem the parent provided appropriate discipline. (She got the belt)
I’ma just shut my fat ass up cause… I’m not understanding the protections they’re allowing for bad behavior. Like how long are we supposed to watch her destroy the store? 🤔 The lady advocating for her to have this “free expression” should have to split the bill with the parents. But I’m gone 🤐
I'm with you if she wanna show out in front of ppl. We'll the late 80s& 90s kid will reflect on what my mother would have done and give her a reason to act out. And dare anyone to say or do anything bc at that point it's my child and doesn't have the money to buy the shit she broke.
I'm sorry. We don't know what she is going through? She would need prayers - after the ass whooping my mom and the other women in the general vicinity gave me. I know times are different, but come on!
There’s Gentle Parenting. & then there’s this. This is Lazy Parenting. I for one do NOT judge whether you do or DON’T whoop your kids. But this will never be ok. B*tch do something. 🫠
I think early on and when warranted, you HAVE to show your kids you ain’t the one or the two. Especially boys. My brothers are way younger than me and I’ve knocked the wind out them a few times for disrespecting my mama. Now they’re way taller than me but they know big sis ain’t gone play
Spankings should never be the go to punishment. However, the way I would have yanked a knot in her behind!!!
This is not new behavior. She is too comfortable with it. This has built up over time. She has been allowed to act out with no consequences for way too long.
Exactly. There are clearly deeper issues going on and she's learned from adults this is acceptable behavior. What she really needs is healthy consequences and coping skills, not more abuse and neglect.
I see in the comments and quotes we're still doing the 'everyone creates their own backstory of what the circumstances are based on a 30 second video' thing...
Exactly. Something much deeper is going on, and it could be as simple as learned behavior from her parents or neglect. Continuing to ignore that or resort to violence doesn't solve ANYTHING. She needs a caring adult to actually take the time to communicate and teach healthy coping skills.
I know right. There could be serious trauma and abuse under all that but it could just be neglectful, entitled parents, or even stress and a disability, who knows. None of that is good tho and she needs healthy coping skills and support. I just hope she gets genuine help for whatever is going on.
Yeah, the child isn't the one who needs an ass beating here. She's learned from adults this is acceptable. What she needs is compassion and healthy coping skills, not more abuse and neglect.
I've seen grown adults act this way in stores. It's no wonder children are doing it. There's something seriously wrong at her home or psychologically for her to do this. It's very sad.
Exactly, children learn this behavior from adults. She needs healthy skills to cope with whatever is going on underneath, not more abuse and neglect. Hope she gets the help she needs from a decent adult willing to take the time to communicate.
the amount of people saying she needs to be beat or whipped is wild. There are better ways to discipline your kid. this is still unacceptable behavior tho, and the parents should be held responsible for damages tbh.
THIS. There are plenty of better ways to enact consequences than abusing your child. She needs to be taught respect, consistency, accountability, and have an adult genuinely give a shit. This behavior comes from neglect/abuse, sometimes disability or mental health issues and she needs help.
Whats interesting to me is the kids who act like this always get the most whooping, they got nothing to lose. One of my niblings... sheesh... he KEPT a knife on him. His mama used to beat him so bad they called cps.
She escalated b/c she knew they wouldn't stop her. W/o a consequence behavior like that gets worse. I can't say the best way to handle the situation b/c chances are good if the wrong officer popped up they'd of escalated the situation even more, but someone (i.e. the parent) should have stepped in
Pretty sure her mom was the one in all black telling the workers left to clean that shit up, "You don't know what she's going through!" She's clearly not going through an ounce of discipline in her whole life 😐
What happens when you find out she gets the attention but she just doesnt give af? She wants what she wants when she wants it and you better do it now. Is it the parents fault for giving too much attention? So much plays a factor and you never know when a parent is doing their best. Yall just assume
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This is why we’re cooked now. Ppl aren’t raising their kids. One of the first real lessons in this life is there is a consequence to EVERYTHING. Act a fool if you want to… we both gone be in this hoe embarrassed.
She learned this somewhere.
I taught mine to keep her hands to herself and use her words
Parents not raising their kids isn’t the fault of the child. And your initial response reflected a sense of confusion ab that fact.
Hope you and your tiny humans have a great Tuesday.
Wishing you and yours the same. Thanks!! 🤓
She needs therapy, but also she needs to pay the bill herself for all those items! Every cent! -she should be made to Work for Walmart itself, learn to have empathy and not be w lil brat.
I'm sorry my moms was a 4 foot something piece of dynamite formed into a lady and would've beat the brakes off me if I tried doing anything like this.
Youre so much smarter than me. Maybe you know what's going on here?
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This post showed up on there as I was scrolling through, it was funny as hell, so I commented. 🤷♂️
It's also possible that she has a learning/mental disability. My sister sometimes acts out and hits the walls or objects then a few seconds later she's back to her normal self and apologizing to everyone about it lol
Now her face is gonna be all over the internet over what was probably a very emotional and difficult time for her.
I hope people are kind to her, and help her to heal and grow in a healthy way 🙏
That looks like a kid who needs an adult they can trust & relate to.
This video has me tearing up because I see the pain and frustration in that child; because whatever resources she has, they are not enough
I did that gig for 7 years … so miss me
Spankings should never be the go to punishment. However, the way I would have yanked a knot in her behind!!!
This is not new behavior. She is too comfortable with it. This has built up over time. She has been allowed to act out with no consequences for way too long.
Also, reason No. 77 why I don't want kids
Stupidity has consequences!!!!
This kid needs attention and saw a way to get it. Hitting the kid is only gonna guarantee worse tantrums.
We don’t believe in decency as a country and reward behavior like this time and time again -