Gender-nonconforming and LGB transsexuals just have a different struggle here and I think it's okay to admit that. And I want to be a support in their facing that struggle—better than I have been, tbh.
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This thread is quite relatable. I'm once again gettung hung up thinking about this distinction being made (in recent discussion in general) between transhet girls and (usually specficically) trans lesbians.
I personally struggle to place myself in this. For one, as bi, but also having been transhet.
In a similar way to numerous straight trans ppl saying they feel a sort of nostalgia and past association with being gay (and something I tbh experienced myself), I have some of that towards being transhet.
Being socially somewhat straight-passing (? who even knows about how others perceive them? unrelatable) but also decidedly sapphic.
I had to teach myself to not joke about being straight due to no longer being straight.
fwiw as a trans lesbian I've never not felt supported by you. Your exploration of identity and sexuality feels uniquely you and not materially impeding support (I often see it as one of historical congruence as well as a personal search).
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I personally struggle to place myself in this. For one, as bi, but also having been transhet.
I had to teach myself to not joke about being straight due to no longer being straight.