Sex positive, kink positive, lgbtq+ positive spaces that vehemently protect each other from toxic actors? Who'da thunk that would change the life of a closeted gay in the american south 😌
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Furry is one of the safest spaces for queer folks specifically because it is a safe place for sex and kink positivity. When your community is built on being a haven for the weird kinksters and sex...sters(?) you can't exactly force people into the closet for being too weird, or strange, or... queer.
It's something the more acceptability focused queer spaces often miss, which leads to weird internalized homophobic, "I'm gay but not one of -those- gays", 'gays against groomers' and 'gays for trump' sorts.
(Of course, there's nothing wrong with being furry and not being into the more odd or sexual side of things! It's just when you get shamey and/or puritan about it that it becomes a problem.)
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