We need to stop acting like calling someone “annoying” is a universal truth, or that being called annoying is akin to being called a bad person. Everyone is annoying to someone and everyone's flavor of annoying is perfect for someone else. It's all subjective! - ThreadSky

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arielleivy.com • 49 days ago

We need to stop acting like calling someone “annoying” is a universal truth, or that being called annoying is akin to being called a bad person. Everyone is annoying to someone and everyone's flavor of annoying is perfect for someone else. It's all subjective!

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atinycosmo.bsky.social•49 days ago

I love this ❣️

noblespaceduck.bsky.social•49 days ago

Worth noting that your brain tries to reinforce its priors. So if you already don't like someone you're way more likely to find fault in every little thing they do.

I have way less patience for people I don't like. It's something I'm working on

arielleivy.com•49 days ago

VERY true!

risotto-c.bsky.social•49 days ago

I agree, though I've met a small handful of people in my life who annoy pretty much everyone. I try to find the best in people and am very much non-judgemental, so there was one guy I knew for two years before I was able to bring myself to agree with all the people who called him annoying.

arielleivy.com•49 days ago

I'm sure even that guy has people in his life who are fine with him! The people who don't have anyone who like them are doing more than just annoyances.

risotto-c.bsky.social•49 days ago

It's possible that you are too nice a person. I actually didn't think that was a thing. Partly because I've long suspected I'm too nice a person, and you appear to be even nicer.

arielleivy.com•49 days ago

You're the first person to ever say that about me in my 31 years of life lmao.

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