i saw someone complaining about nsfw accounts blocking "nsfw dni" accounts, and i think that speaks to a larger culture clash where people who align with antis see being blocked as a punishment and/or a condemnation rather than a matter of mutual benefit
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(see also: why they seek out and harass people who meet their dni criteria, which is the literal opposite of maintaining a boundary)
I've had my own personal experiences w/ that, but I saw it on a *massive* scale when that thing blew up w/ the artist who went fans who were making content of their chars they didn't approve of.
Been thinking about this for *so* long & here it's (mostly) safe to talk about
https://bsky.app/profile/mishadventure.bsky.social/post/3lbad67b74c2f
and ultimately self-defeating on the artist's part, because there was so little of the work they disapproved of floating around. youd have to be actively seeking it out to find it, too.
like...im not trying to win or lose bluesky, here. im just trying to curate my space in peace with people who actually want to be a part of it!
if that boundary is that they dont want to see me...yes? because that guarantees they will, in fact, not see me? why are you so mad.
https://bsky.app/profile/did:plc:ewglbemds3oy2ftsbageagsj/lists/3l6p57gqrbk2a
here's a thread with a bunch of them, including the one im running!