For those new to Burned Haystack®: It's a method of using dating apps to find a monogamous partnership. It uses my academic specialties of applied rhetoric and feminist praxis. Here's an article for some background on how it started. There are now >150K using it.

https://www.huffpost.com/entry/online-dating-apps-burned-haystack_n_64d8de7ce4b077b577035f18