I'm invited somewhere on Sunday: an underwear party with costume changes encouraged for the first 90 minutes, then clothes come off & sex acts can happen after that. Not sure it's really my thing but add that if I RSVP & no show I'm banned from the group? What's wrong with a simple naked gathering? - ThreadSky

sorryguysimhis.bsky.social • 13 days ago

I'm invited somewhere on Sunday: an underwear party with costume changes encouraged for the first 90 minutes, then clothes come off & sex acts can happen after that. Not sure it's really my thing but add that if I RSVP & no show I'm banned from the group? What's wrong with a simple naked gathering?

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newdnerd.bsky.social•13 days ago

I'd hang naked with you anytime. No wardrobe changes or sex acts necessary. 😂

justme-duane.bsky.social•12 days ago

Go and enjoy yourself but do what you are comfortable with

sorryguysimhis.bsky.social•12 days ago

One thing you might not know about me is I have a some level of social anxiety. Party with friends & an unknown agenda: fine. Casual party with people I don't know: fine. Themed party where the people & dynamic & proceedings aren't known & I can't back out can be a lot to process!

rkchi973.bsky.social•8 days ago

Agree with you 💯

topsail1.bsky.social•11 days ago

Happy Saturday! Have you decided about the party yet?

sorryguysimhis.bsky.social•8 days ago

I didn't end up going. We went for a walk in a wooded County park instead

topsail1.bsky.social•12 days ago

Are the potential sex acts the main cause of apprehension?

sorryguysimhis.bsky.social•12 days ago

Maybe not as much as long as I'm able to leave when things tend that way. It does though feel like a sex party that's pretending to be something more sophisticated

topsail1.bsky.social•12 days ago

I hope that if you go, you don’t feel pressured to do something you don’t want to do. That wouldn’t be fun. My unsolicited advice — follow your instincts regarding whether to go or not.

topsail1.bsky.social•12 days ago

Is your partner going with you?

sorryguysimhis.bsky.social•12 days ago

No he wouldn't

topsail1.bsky.social•12 days ago

Do you think you will go? You and I are similar - I get where you are coming from.

ro-nudist.bsky.social•12 days ago

I was apart of an all male nudist group in my area before they disbanded. The parties did not allow any touching what’s so ever, not even a handshake. I loved it!!!

I wish I could host parties like those but my house is too small and no private yard.

sorryguysimhis.bsky.social•12 days ago

I feel like smaller gatherings don't require a big house or a yard. I was at one where we had 10 of us in a living room and that was enough

joe-gratton.bsky.social•13 days ago

Wardrobe changes could be fun. Stick around for that and once you get uncomfortable leave

sunfuninwi.bsky.social•13 days ago

I agree! What's wrong with a simple naked gathering? I'm interested!

thatonefurrybear.bsky.social•12 days ago

What I would do is 6 pairs of underwear and take one off every15 minutes. Boxer shorts on the outside, take those off to reveal, boxer briefs, take those off to reveal briefs, take those off to reveal tight whites, take those off to reveal a Jockstrap, and Finally a Thong last then Nude!!

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