it's very interesting to see blitz be so doting but also do careful with physical touch, I actually think he's not as sex-focused as maybe people think. because sex was a tool for him, not something for true intimacy.
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I wouldn't call him sex-crazed but wouldn't say sex is just a tool for him either. I think Blitz struggles to process his own emotions. After the fire, I think he kinda had to shut down and stop feeling to a degree to avoid being overwhelmed. Blitz feels a lot, he just doesn't understand it.
Meanwhile, Blitz did come to understand that both he and other people seemed to enjoy the physical actions of sex. He desperately craves the emotional aspect of it but is afraid to show it and doesn't think he's worthy of being loved. That's why he comes off as just some sex-crazed horn-dog.
i think he definitely feels A LOT, i guess the sex-as-tool thing comes from his comfort with using his body in transactional/utilitarian or protective ways and my own headcanons about him maybe using sex work or survival sex to make it post-fire.
I also agree in thinking that he doesn't see sex as something equivalent with true intimacy (though it can be a part of intimacy and he is aware of intimate implications around it), which is why what he IS being so careful with Stolas right now.
oh I think he enjoys it especially as a mark of something good he can do for someone. but I don't think he's as... focused and requires it? if that makes sense. like he'd actually be okay waiting and not having it because he had other ways of showing care
Oh no I don't think he's only focused on it, I just meant that I think he does want* it. I agree that, especially with a bigger prize like a true intimate connection, he would willingly set it aside. And yeah it's a super complicated history, he can't be put into a single box with it.
Completely agree and another good example of this is with ghostfuckers. He wants to fuck a ghost to cope - but also hooking up with a ghost (esp since they are not real in the uni) means he can’t hurt them, can’t be intimate with them because he only wants intimacy with Stolas.
in the full moon duet he used sex as a distraction and to pretend it was okay, but I don't actually think he's ever had sex for intimacy or pleasure's sake before. like ever. it's always been with something else attached
I think there's an interpretation of him as like an insensitive horndog incapable of genuine romantic moments, I even see it now after sinsmas, and I guess I'm voicing that I don't think that's how he is lol 🫣
... Okay, we watched the 11 hour Vic Mignogna thing after having witnessed some but not all of what it discussed firsthand, and we swear we thought this was about him until the "sinsmas" part threw us.
he may use brashness and insults to cover himself up, may have diverted to sex in fear of true love and intimacy, that's definitely true and more of season 1 behaviors. in s2 there's a Lot More of his softness.
I think all that we saw in Sinsmas was always there, waiting.
My headcanon is that he may probably be demi-aro. And I very much agree with you, there is always been softness in Blitz and it pops out every now and then expecially with Loona. We are now see how Blitz is when he feels comfortable with someone he loves
Oh yes. I definitely don't think he is overly horny. His hypersexual behaviour hasn't been to seek pleasure, but to feel wanted. And his innuendos and constantly flirting are part of his persona, or a way to break off uncomfortable emotional situations (like asking Fizz to make out with him).
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I also think he legitimately just enjoys it and wants it for pleasure as well (both for himself and as something he could do for his partner)
He enjoys both for physical pleasure and as a craft he is good at.
I think all that we saw in Sinsmas was always there, waiting.