Things get very romantic when you take a minute to slow down and really let everything sink in. Just how great that sandwich tastes because of the extra care you took. The sound of the birds in those trees you don’t know the name of.
Obviously you could make your own up, but one example could be: ‘okay, so on a scale of 1 to 10, where 1 is ‘I don’t love you at all’, to 10 which is ‘I love you more than anything or anyone in the world’, where are you do you think? I’m a solid 6.5.’
There isn’t going to be one thing in this article that will cause you to get a girlfriend. Move away from the idea of ‘done / being done to’. That’s not how dating, sex, and relationships work.
Instead of you competing against each other, you are both on the same team, trying to find out how much fun you can have playing table tennis. This means conversations, would be more ‘yes and …. ‘ rather than ‘no, but ….’. Imagine commas, and ellipses … https://www.bishuk.com/relationships/how-to-impress-someone-you-like/
Loving ‘at’ someone is very different from the love which is created between people. It’s about paying attention to the things that actually make love happen between people, not just the feelings you hold internally about someone. https://www.bishuk.com/relationships/crushes-and-unrequited-love/
Thing is, so many people have relationships that aren’t really giving them what they want. If you could negotiate your relationship from the outset and talk about it during then maybe you could have happier relationships?
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