This is the flip side of "I'm always the one to reach out, must be because they don't actually want my company and they're just humoring my advances out of politeness and/or convenience" which is equally fun!
I saw you a few times at conventions, felt similar to this about myself at the time. You succeeded in making me smile, multiple times. Lots of love to you. 🥹💜🫂
I intended this to be a DM but it seems bluesky doesn't have those yet
please don't hurt me people of the internet
just wanted to be nice
sending positive vibes
No , I just lack the headspace to answer everyone at the same time im so sorry I am trying to grind back up all my messages but I think I've gotten a bit too ambicious lately ...😭
This is so relatable 😭 And then I see those posts going around how people say to abandon friends who don't message first enough and assume we're being toxic and that makes it so much worse 😞 I also have ADHD, which... yeah. Worsens the issue.
Gosh damn... This... It's like hearing myself. I can't even begin to tell you how many days I've had moments like this where I get so trapped inside my head instead of just sending a message to say hi or something, but I always feel so urged to just hide in my shell and bury my thoughts away.
If people are reaching out to you, they are being authentic about their care for you. It takes more energy to fake liking someone for ultimately no benefit, so you can disarm your brain a little bit by internalizing that. You’re valid and loved 💜
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Be kind to yourself, you deserve it.
Fuck…
I've been better this year though 🥲🥲
please don't hurt me people of the internet
just wanted to be nice
sending positive vibes
I hope that in time this will get easier on you and everyone concerned by theses toughts
Would you like me to hold back a bit?