✨ℂ𝕖𝕝𝕖𝕓𝕣𝕒𝕥𝕖 𝕖𝕧𝕖𝕣𝕪𝕥𝕙𝕚𝕟𝕘, 𝕖𝕧𝕖𝕣𝕪𝕨𝕙𝕖𝕣𝕖, 𝕒𝕝𝕝 𝕒𝕥 𝕠𝕟𝕔𝕖 ✨
Sounds corny but you have to because life is going to deal you the worst cards you will ever get in your life, especially if you are queer, especially if you are trans or NB.
I find ways to do this everyday. I have to.
Sounds corny but you have to because life is going to deal you the worst cards you will ever get in your life, especially if you are queer, especially if you are trans or NB.
I find ways to do this everyday. I have to.
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It's mushy, it's sentimental but we crave it. Recognition. Acceptance and support. But not everyone can give it to everyone. You run out of giving it because it comes from you.
Learn to balance keeping your well of love full so you can give..
We don't hear congratulations enough. Because people have been conditioned to think of big capitalist behaviours. If you don't have money, big followers etc you aren't successful. Fuck that. You gained a new follower, great for you. It's a step up.
Don't be afraid to say "I'm helping you because it helps me".
This is how life works and if someone makes you feel guilty about helping someone and celebrating them - point out the behaviour, let them try to fix it, if not... Bye
They tell you what not to do, but they don't reinforce what you should do.
Getting good at consistently telling someone "Well done" and meaning is meant to be a muscle flexed well. I make sure to congratulate someone on any achievement they share.