There are a few places that I am stealth at and I would like to keep it that way. So when I do these apps, I don't put myself down as trans in my dating profile.
Hinge has this new thing where it will send a message on a match and I have it set to disclose when I do match with someone.
I know this is gonna result in a lot of matches where I immediately get unmatched.
This also ends up in me liking on someone based on whether or not they look like they'd date a trans woman from their profile rather than any other measure I might find attractive.
This is why it takes me literally months to hype myself up enough to "get back out there" only to get completely disillusioned and torn down in weeks/days/hours.
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Hinge has this new thing where it will send a message on a match and I have it set to disclose when I do match with someone.
This also ends up in me liking on someone based on whether or not they look like they'd date a trans woman from their profile rather than any other measure I might find attractive.
Shit sucks lol